This isn't easy - but it is VITAL.
Vital for your own self-development. Vital for your business and career. Vital for your relationships. Vital for your inner happiness.
Embodying a success mindset does not mean you are focussed on winning, rewards and money - thats not what it means to me anyway.
A success mindset is about becoming relentless in your pursuit of happiness and contentment. A success mindset is not giving in when things get hard and finding solutions, instead of focussing on the problem.
Remember - I said it wasn't easy, but it is vital!
I want to share 3 tips to help embrace this success mindset and make you focus on the solutions and find ways to make things work.
1. When you feel like it can't get any worse - keep going.
Honestly - if things seem too hard, too abysmal and just down right impossible to move past, you have not reached the other side.
I say this, because I have been there. I know what it feels like to be stuck in the midst of darkness and feel like you are lost with no light in sight.
My first piece of advice - keep going my lovely. Keep on going.
The more you push through, the closer to the other side you will get.
The longer you accept defeat, the longer you will stay stuck in the darkness and this is NOT your success mindset talking, it is the failure mindset that I am trying to get you to avoid!
2. Focus on your past success
There will be times in your life where you felt like there was no way forward - yet you found it and came out stronger and wiser.
Remind yourself of those times as often as you can. Remind yourself constantly that you have done this before and you have come out bigger and better!
The more you reinforce the success you have had in the past, the more confidence you fill find and the more strength you can muster to just keep on powering on.
You are stronger than you realise and this mindset trick will help you remember that when you need it most.
3. The struggles make the triumphs even sweeter
Your journey to a success mindset could be in business, love, confidence - whatever it is, its the journey to this mindset and way of living that matters most.
The more you embrace the struggles and find ways to learn from them, the more enriched and fabulous your story becomes!
This is your life and lets face it - no-ones life comes without its own ups and downs and lessons to learn. So whatever your lessons to learn are - don't give in to the idea of a problem and struggle - focus on the solution and the lesson to be learnt.
Know this - Coca Cola sold 28 bottles in its first year or business (or there abouts!) But success and abundance followed - and it will for you too.
Your mindste is the most powerful tool you have at your disposal - use it wisely beautiful because it can either destroy you or build you up into what you deserve to be.